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July 3, 2023

How to Deal with Incompetence: The Role of Malice

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You might have seen some memes going around claiming “Idiots, everywhere!” or something of the sort. As George Carlin famously said, imagine how dumb the average person is, then realize half of them are even dumber. But to deal with incompetence (which isn’t quite the same as stupidity, which isn’t quite the same as ignorance), we need to also take something else into consideration: the role of malice.

There is a world of difference between an incompetent person who, still, has good intentions, and one who is malevolent. In other words, the saying “the road to hell is paved with good intentions” is seriously misleading.

Why?

But because benevolent incompetence will want to rectify its repercussions, whereas malevolent will not even recognize there is a problem.

Let’s try to categorize all this and come up with a theoretical framework, to see where (if anywhere!) it gets us.

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“Let me handle this, Jim” (as I’ve said before, whenever I don’t want to spend much time finding a more suitable image, you get a cat; this time, you get two)

To Deal with Incompetence, Identify It

To properly deal with incompetence, we need to know what we’re facing. I see four possible scenarios here:

Here’s an interesting detail about the above, which you might have realized already: You can be two at the same time, in different areas of your life. But can you be three?

Can You Be Both Benevolent and Malevolent?

It should be self-evident that a person can be competent in X and Y, while they are incompetent in W and Z. It should be also clear that competence and incompetence is not a binary condition; it has degrees and it is subjective.

In other words, I can be “somewhat competent” when it comes to making simple webapps, whereas I am “very competent” when you want an analysis of the Gothic mode. This also depends on who’s making the assessment. An 80-year-old grandma who has never used a computer might consider me a wizard of programming and would call me “very competent”. Yet if she were a professor of Gothic studies, perhaps she’d consider me only “somewhat competent” as a Gothic scholar!

But there’s another issue at play here.

If we accept that a person can be competent in one thing and incompetent in another, can they also be benevolent in one and malevolent in another?

Malevolence Isn’t Scope-Dependent

Once again, let’s identify the possible pair scenarios, where one would be both malevolent and benevolent in two fields/activities, X and Y:

Essentially, the first case describes someone who is helpful and cooperative when they feel they don’t know something very well, yet also scheming and devious when they feel they do; the second case, on the other hand, describes someone who is an arrogant, mischievous know-it-all when they actually don’t know something (hello Dunning-Kruger), yet also a supportive team-player when they do.

I must say, though certainly both cases are likely and even common, I would tend to think they must be far less common than the alternative scenario: A person is benevolent (or malevolent) regardless of competence.

In other words, generally speaking, I would argue malevolence is not scope-dependent. I confess this is only a hypothesis, based on neither data nor any research on the matter. Take it with a huge pinch of salt.

So, how Do We Deal with Incompetence?

Based on the above, it would seem that the first step would be precisely to identify whether the person’s incompetence – and again, recall the gradations and subjectivity involved – is accompanied by malevolence or benevolence.

We should support and guide someone who is incompetent but benevolent, genuinely wanting to help but not quite knowing what to do. As I said, we are all ignorant in an essentially infinite number of things. Believe it or not, I didn’t know anything before I learned it – crazy, right?

On the other hand, when we deal with incompetence that is motivated by and expressed as malevolence, things are trickier. Sometimes, what is expressed as malevolence might be the symptom/mask of something else – for instance, fear or anger. Sometimes, the exchange of information, opinions, and, in plain terms, a little chitchat, might clarify some things and be beneficial for everyone involved.

Nonetheless, and call me cynical if you want, I think most people are beyond help. Ultimately, no matter what might lurk beneath one’s behavior, it cannot count as justification. In plain terms, being afraid or angry isn’t an excuse to be an asshole.

Incompetence and malice is a socially damaging, highly toxic combo, and one should try to avoid it as much as possible.